The truth is, God loves me without condition, in spite of my sin or failures. He holds me dear and cherishes me. This is because of the greatness of His love, grace, and mercy, and not because I merited His love by works. This is the truth that the Bible teaches. Just as I could not earn His love by being good, I cannot un-earn His love by being bad. Thoughts and feelings of unworthiness are lies which the enemy lies to us. We do not have to accept those lies. We can reject the lies and believe the truth instead.
(No one is worthy of God’s love. He doesn’t love based on worth, for all are of infinite value, being created in His image. The price He has placed on us is the blood of His own Son, which is priceless.)
This is how I trained my heart and mind to receive and believe the truth:
“I am feeling __like God does not love me__, but it is only a feeling brought on by my past. It is not a true reflection of my current reality. My reality is determined by the word of God, and this is what it says: __repeat Scripture__.”
The word of God is powerful, living and active, the weapon of our warfare which is effective against all the lies of the enemy and mighty to tear down strongholds (2 Cor 10:4).